How to avoid personality clashes

How To Avoid Personality Clashes

As Maverick said to Iceman it's not ability it's attitude.

About The Video.

Understand your own faults, demons, peculiarities.
Stay calm and non aggressive.
Think before you speak
Be the 'grown-up'.

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Wellness.

Stay centred and focus on things you can control: In this context that means you; how you respond and how you act.
Be patient: Increasingly the demands of life are so complicated everyone needs to relax and allow for the pressure we all feel.
Keep calm: Pressure can be expressed as anger and aggression. The antidote to anger and aggression is calmness.
Don't blame, take responsibility: Borrowing from the filmmaker Robert Evans the three truths to every story are; your truth, my truth and the truth. Accept responsibility when and where you are wrong.
Don't harm: Where possible avoid arguing by ignoring provocation and controlling personal 'triggers'.
Become aware: Everyone has a bad day and everyone has hot-buttons be aware of the former and avoid the latter..
Respect everyone: No matter how peculiar their attitude or outlook everyone has a right to have their voice heard.
Be truthful not hateful. Speak your truths consistently and without being combative or aggressive: As things get heated the truth is your best ally.
Avoid belligerent people: Especially if there is any notion that things might get violent.
Use your years of experience wisely: Corrupting an Italian proverb 'honey catches more flies than vinegar.'
Don't allow your mind to create problems and give birth to monsters: Before you react badly, make sure you understand the situation completely.
BE HAPPY: A smile will diffuse most heated situations.

What's Next?

Make a note of my 'Ten Practical Steps to Avoid Personality Clashes' and see how they tie in with you controlling your response to the world around you

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